Q: I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ the rules of consent and communication a pro dom escort friend taught me. But is there a legal release document we could sign that protects consenting adults in the event of an accident or death? —Ruminating About Consensual Kinks
“As consenting adults, we assume the risks involved in this type of kink,” said Mistress A Elena. “But if you harm your partner or they become scared, shamed, shocked, or, even worse, gravely injured, it’s the dom’s problem. At any time, the submissive can change their mind. Some cases have been classified as ‘rape’ or ‘torture’ afterward, even though consent was initially given. It’s our job as dominants/tops/leads to make sure everyone is safe, consenting, and capable.”
A: Maybe your college girlfriend remembers you a little too fondly. Maybe a family friend had the same name. Maybe she met someone else with your name in the last ten years, and she and her husband had a few threesomes with that guy, and she remembers those fondly. Maybe you’ll run into her someday and she’ll tell you the real reason. Now here are a few definitelys to balance out all those maybes, NAMES. This is definitely none of your business, and you definitely can’t do anything about it—people can definitely give their children whatever names they want—and there’s definitely no use in stressing out about it.
